Now, I've chosen my boyfriend. And guess what? I chose him over a really hot chick- because I love him. And let me say... this girl was hot. (Did I say she was hot? She was hot.) It's all the same thing. There's no difference. At some point, we won't need to justify being gay by saying "I just couldn't help it no matter how hard I tried!" We'll just say "yeah- I loved that person (or had the hots for that person) and chose to be with them (or just hit them up) because it was, quite frankly, a great decision to make."