What you don't dare to say out loud..

This thread is about everything you wanna say to somebody, but you don't have the guts to do so.

It can be your neighbour, your teacher, your lover, your mother..anyone..

From experience -I made this thread at other fora as well, it's kinda surprising how many people need to "say" stuff out loud..-I know it can be relieving, to spit something out.

Let's see if it works...

*kicks off*


Person 1.
You're so not cool!
Actually, I did say that right into her face...*lol*

Person 2.
I guess I'm afraid.
Scared.
Seems that I'm protecting you, against myself.
It's hard to explain, so I won't even try.

EEeeeek. So tempting to unleash the demon inside me and blast out against some one I'm still furious with *counts on fingers* nine years after the fact. I'm usually pretty cool and collected about things but this still has me fuming.... let's just say I wouldn't feel too sad if a bus were to run this person over because I feel like they're a blot on humanity and a waste of oxygen.... eeek... I'd better stop there. My thoughts are turning very ugly and I don't like to see myself that way.

Forgiven but not forgotten and apparently still not forgiven. *Sigh*

I have something I wanna say to someone, but I don't think I ever can actually say it to their face in a million years.

"I like you a lot.. I really really like you.. But I wish you weren't a drum major."

:(


Basically I want a chance to hang out with a girl I like, and marching band was the time I'd get to do it, because she's in my section. But then she became a drum major, and that plan failed.


"I'm happy for you and your boyfriend. I really am."

As long as she's happy, I'm happy.


Emma

just unleash and DO IT...i always say whats on my mind to whomever

ugh, to that person in my OFFICE:

Would please for the love of god, stop clearing the phlem in your thoart in that loud and disgusting way. ugh, and stop spitting it in your trash. Come on. didnt mommy teach you about hygeine and manners??

your so disgusting. And on top of that, you think your so blasted important to this office, yet no one wants your here. just go get another job you pompous overstuffed butt head..

"I want you to get the perfect job, mostly because I want you to be happy. But I confess that it's partly because I want you to stop talking constantly about your job search."

:oops: That felt good.

"Why do you have to pretend to want to do this, And than you throw it in my face at any little disagreement? you are such a spoiled little brat and you need to get over yourself. I would never do anything in such a manner, without you being involved and i am sick and tired of you being such a jerk about everything. Life isnt all about you, and you need to stop thinking that the world revolves around you. I love you, but you are lucky that i am still here putting up with your crap."

wow this does feel good! :twisted:

To the lady on my street....

"Take better care of your children! They're babies! Two of them are still in diapers and you toss them out in your backyard and never pay any attention to them! There are things you can do if you don't want to be a mother you know!"

Oh could this thread get me in trouble....I've a hellish temper and a mouth as well and am usually relatively laid back but here goes...so I will try to put this in text to which won't get me booted off the site or banned and this isn't directed towards anyone here either...

You like to play the game of belittling me and saying how hard your life is and that mine is cake well...newflash Hoss you don't know jack because there is A LOT about mine that you DON'T know and never will or that you simply have cast aside and used the ploy of taking something to make yours seem worse. You say I am like your best friend...that is BS because if I was you wouldn't call me a b**** or a psycho every time I say enough is enough. You are the one who is constantly bringing the drama into my life. A life that I have worked so hard to put back together and am CONTINUALLY working to put back together. The more you push me and the more you belittle me and throw everything back in my face the more more you are going to find that I will up and disappear and this time...it will be for good. There is no going back. I am done...I am through. You always said you were a better man....well a better man wouldn't have to treat a woman like she is beneath him. And he sure as hell would get some balls and grow the hell up instead of whining about every little thing in life that goes wrong. You can't change fate and fate can't change you....you can only change yourself. :!:

"What do you know, you miserable, violent drunk?" :x

"Using 'big words' where 'small words' will do doesn't make you sound more intelligent and it doesn't make you a scientist either. This is a forum, we're not writing for Nature here."

I'm on a few reptile forums and some people seem to think that taking a scientific approach means saying 'utilize' instead of 'use' and 'aspirate' instead of 'inhale'. I think it just looks silly in the context of a forum.

or perhaps just their way of communicating?


hmm... most of the time i am honest about what i think... perhaps not direct smack in their face... but people know what i mean....the most of the time...

so...

Stop being such a nag and just try to see the bright side of life...stop focusing on the negativity...

to?... everyone who feels like this would/could and should aply to ...

there you go..

Yah, it's funny that almost every post shows negativity.


There are lotsa NICE stuff, people don't really dare to say, face to face.



~

person #1:

"I've cared about you for years and gone out of my way to hear you out when you were down, visited you when you were far away, and supported what you do, but you brush off everything about me and don't visit me or take interest in my goings-ons. I can't keep doing this. It's always hurt, even when we have superficial fun together. If you can't change you're going to lose me forever."

and person #2:

"I don't feel badly for you. You lost so many of our friends after we broke up because you acted like a child, you lost your dream job because you acted like a fool, and you're about to lose everyone else you cared about because you're a traitor. Stop trying to lean on me for support, you burned our bridge as badly as you have with everyone else. I loved you once, but I never will again."

aaand person #3:

"You need to get your head on straight! You failed out of college, lost your home, lost your driver's license, lost your checking account...and you're not doing anything about it! You are so smart and talented, but every time you get a boyfriend you care about you lose yourself in him. He's a good guy and if he knew his presence was contributing to your downfall he'd feel so guilty. You're my best friend and I love you and it drives me nuts to see you doing this to yourself. I'm not upset that we can't graduate together or live together next year on-campus like we wanted to, but I will be upset if you never come back to school."

I bottle things up.